The experience of undergoing loss in itself is already enough to be added as a difficult experience, in someone. This state of knowing, feeling aware of the negative nature of loss and not just what it takes from you, but what it leaves you with, makes it’s owner aware of having failed to be in control of that loss, or to have had the power to be in control of that loss. Feeling like that ebbs and heal and becomes part of your experience and part of your knowing.
It has consequences, it makes you more aware, it strengthens your resolve, you tolerate and persevere more, you become more confident in dealing with difficult obstacles you may face, you tolerate yourself and trust your knowing more and achieving becomes part of your makeup.
That makes failing just a process to overcome…